A hand reaching over a cat's head can end the conversation before it starts. Bad move. Feline touch is not a free sample at a checkout; it is a negotiation conducted through posture, gaze, whiskers, and distance, and the cat gets the final vote by walking away, freezing, or swatting.The rude part is speed, not affection. You may mean comfort, yet a sudden hand can push a cat's autonomic nervous sy...More