Silence can feel tidy. It is often just a locked door, while pursuit can turn a casual spark into a performance nobody asked to join. You do not need a grand gesture. Put a small, easy opening on the table: a coffee suggestion, a shared joke, a question with no trap inside it.The smarter bet is reciprocity. It is not a trick. Offer one clear chance to connect, then notice what he does with it; whe...More